Keeping Your Man Happy In The Bedroom
This weekend Davina instructed women everywhere on how to keep their men happy. Women should keep their husbands sexually satisfied ‘even if you’re absolutely exhausted’.
Apparently if not then we should face the possibility of our partners cheating on us, abhorrent as it may sound, it would appear to hold true!
I know that many of us are now consulting our memories as to frequency, effort and so on…but rather than sustaining some frenzied attack on the possibles let us also consider with calm on how to progress from here.
In real life, with commitments like work, kids, family life and so on, it does not become our focus or aim to keep the ‘magic’ alive, however, we need to find a way to get this work/life balance in harmony and as difficult as it may seem, we have to create time for intimacy.
As far as lingerie choice goes, whether it be suggested by your other half or not, it is actually all part of the game; we do want to be admired and thought of as sexy and part of that process is to include our partner it adds to the moment. I really do not see what all the fuss is about, no one is being coerced it is simply that it is not on our minds 24/7 because we do not have the time! Perhaps if we were at the spa all day and then shopping and relaxing we may feel more inclined to take the lead more often. Again, compromise is key in a partnership.
If more people were forthcoming you would probably hear this story repeatedly. I honestly do not feel that we are being told to revert to a 1950s Stepford Wife figure here, just some down to earth facts that are amusing anecdotely, because we have all been there!