How to Get What You Want (Nicely)

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To achieve desires as you know, it’s not possible to always get exactly what you want, especially when other people are concerned. Sometimes we think we know what we want, but this may not exactly be what we need or what is best for us. Having said that, there are a few tips that you could practice in order to help steer things in the direction that you please, and it all boils down to being really nice!

Always Be Nice

You are much more likely to steer outcomes in your desired direction if you treat people with respect and courtesy. If you get upset, overreact or allow your emotions to get the better of you, you will likely end up driving people away and turning them against you. No matter how someone else feels about you; you always have the opportunity to change their perception of you in the present moment by the way in which you act and behave.

See Things from Other’s Point of View

In order to successfully get what you want it is important to see the situation from other people’s point of view. It is important to treat people with respect and show them that you care about them and their needs. People are more likely to let you have your own way if they can at least see that you respect and acknowledge their point of view.


You are more likely to get what you want if you are motivated and determined to achieve it. Passion and excitement can take you a far way and are energies that can help to get you to where you want to be. If you lack drive and resolve, chances are you may not get what you want in the end. On the other hand, if you have enough will this will allow you to persevere and overcome any challenges that may stand in your way. If it is another person who will choose whether or not you get what you wish for; they are more likely to give you your way if they can feel your spirit and tenacity.

Ultimately, how to get what you want really boils down to how you treat other people and approach situations. By taking care of everything and everyone around you with compassion and keeping a positive mind state, you may just find that life starts to shift in your favour.

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